bye to a friend....

ladydog · 05-23-2006, 12:02 PM

okay yesterday this happened , tomorrow we're getting outta school and one of my best friends are moving, i saw her and she was crying. so i went up to her and i gave her one of my flowers someone gave me, she dropped the flower and just hugged my neck. i couldnt help but to cry then. she told me that she was glad to have a friend like me and that she will miss me. shes had a hard life and shes under dhr. they wont let her stay

it makes me mad and sad.

so tomorrow i will ahev to go to school and say good bye to my best friend.

: im goin to give her big hugs. please pray that alanna makes better friends than she said i was.

she really deserves it, better friends.

mrsgrubby · 05-23-2006, 12:11 PM

So sorry your friend is moving, I know it is hard to loose a good friend, and even harder when that friend doesn't want to move.

How far away is she going? Maybe you will still be able to see each other, and at least e-mail makes it easy to stay in touch.

None the less, I am sure you will miss her, and she you. Hugs to both of you!!!

ladydog · 05-23-2006, 12:35 PM

not sure how far shes goin. DHR's taking her! grrr...but she does deserve a way better life and she cant do it here.

im crying right now cause she just called me and said tomorrows the last time we'll see each other, stupid dhr people!

im sure you know what dhr is right?

gsp4619 · 05-23-2006, 12:45 PM

awwww sorry to hear that. You can be penpals if she is going to far and your frienship will still be strong

ladydog · 05-23-2006, 01:39 PM

thanks for the advise. i may see about pen pals.

i was talking to a person in the class and when i told them they just looked at me and said "so., shes just a friend." you know that made me mad! i began yelling at them and i walked out the door and walked on home.(it was time to go home.)

im still wanting to cry my eyes out, tomorrow im takeing a camera and getting a pic. if yall want when theyre developed i'll show you all.

mrsgrubby · 05-23-2006, 03:18 PM

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Originally Posted by ladydog

im sure you know what dhr is right?

Ladydog, actually sorry I dont' know what dhr is? Is it some sort of human services/foster group?

How old is your friend? Does she not know where she is going either?

I am so sorry for you both!!!
I'd love to see pictures of her after you take them!!!
I am sure she would love to hear you still want to stay in touch with her like pen pals. It would probably make her move so much easier.

ladydog · 05-23-2006, 04:14 PM

dhr.......well kinda hard 4 me to explain..... she was taken from her mom and dad. she lives with her grandmother but the dhr is still taking her. she been in many foster homes. when i heard her story, she said to me," you know that time when i was taken outta b b comer? people said i went to another school? well its a lie. i went to a foster home, many many foster homes." i was shocked. she didnt tell until this weekend that dhr was taking her.

if anyone can and know what dhr is will you explain?

my friend is 12. she doesent know where shes going neither.

ladydog · 05-23-2006, 06:05 PM

im about to explode! wwwwwaaaaaaahhhh!

calgal · 05-23-2006, 06:22 PM

Maybe you could go to her house and talk with her grandmother as to why she has to leave. It doesn't make sense to me, but I don't know the whole story. Maybe the grandmother is just too ill and doesn't want her granddaughter to know.
I don't have a clue what dhr is. You could ask the grandmother.

mrsgrubby · 05-23-2006, 07:03 PM

Well I am sorry, i bet your friend is really scared since she doesn't know where she is going. That would be scary, and especially since she has lived in several foster homes. What a sad situation for her to be in.

I bet her grandma is sad too.

I am so sorry you have to go through this. I wish there was something we could do to help. Just know that we feel for you honey and we are sad for you and your friend.

I hope she is able to find a good home to treat her right and give her all the love and support she deserves.

Hugs to you for being such a good friend to her, you sound like a really good friend!!!!

linnie · 05-23-2006, 07:37 PM

Good grief what a sad thing for your friend to be going through at such a young age.
I really hate to see young people getting a bad deal out of life.
Prayers going her way, heres hoping it all works out well for her

ladydog · 05-24-2006, 05:19 AM

thanks.calgal , i dont think talking to her grandmaws such a good idea. shes a drunk

. i dont think she even likes me.

well look at the time, im bout to have to go to school. ill get back to yall after that! bye! this is the last day!

i get to see her!!!!!

Shadowkins · 05-24-2006, 05:21 AM

I know it's hard to see your friend go but sometimes things work out for the best and I sure hope her life will be much better where she will be. You can stay in touch with her in many ways and make sure you do ( if you know where she is going).
Friends don't always have to be in the same area to be close to you....I know that sounds silly, but I've had a real kindred friend for years, but she is 1500 miles away and we still stay in touch.
I'm sorry you're so sad right now and I wish I could be there to give you a hug and say " everything will be alright"...just remember you have friends here that will lend you a shoulder to cry on , so don't be shy.
Take care

k9hullio_sam · 05-24-2006, 05:29 AM

I am so sorry to hear that!! I hope you two can still keep in touch via e-mail of letters or what not.

One of my friends recently moved to Afghanistan, it was not as sad because she said she was coming back next year, but we still e-mail ezch other. Hopefully you will still be friends, and maybe your parents will let you go and see her sometimes. Good Luck!! Sorry again that she is moving.

mrsgrubby · 05-24-2006, 06:51 AM

We'll be here for you tonight when you get home from school.

I am so sorry about your friend. But hopefully she will go somewhere where she is loved and treated special. It sounds like she has had a pretty hard life, first taken away from her parents who don't sound they they were giving her a good life, the taken from her grandma that has a drinking problem.

All kids deserve to be raised in a happy, healthy, loveing, caring home. Your friend deserves this.

I hope you gave her your address so she can write you a letter when she gets settled and let you know where she is. I bet they won't move her out of the state, so she might not end up that far away! She might even end up in the same town, just another home.

don't cry ladydog, it will be ok.

05-23-2006, 12:02 PM	#1 (permalink)
ladydog Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Sweet Home Alabama! Posts: 173 Rep Power: 47	bye to a friend.... okay yesterday this happened , tomorrow we're getting outta school and one of my best friends are moving, i saw her and she was crying. so i went up to her and i gave her one of my flowers someone gave me, she dropped the flower and just hugged my neck. i couldnt help but to cry then. she told me that she was glad to have a friend like me and that she will miss me. shes had a hard life and shes under dhr. they wont let her stay it makes me mad and sad. so tomorrow i will ahev to go to school and say good bye to my best friend. : im goin to give her big hugs. please pray that alanna makes better friends than she said i was. she really deserves it, better friends.

05-23-2006, 07:37 PM	#11 (permalink)
linnie tibbie girl Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Australia Posts: 3,051 Rep Power: 168	Good grief what a sad thing for your friend to be going through at such a young age. I really hate to see young people getting a bad deal out of life. Prayers going her way, heres hoping it all works out well for her
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05-24-2006, 05:21 AM	#13 (permalink)
Shadowkins Shadowkins Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Saskatchewan,Canada Posts: 2,726 Rep Power: 125	I know it's hard to see your friend go but sometimes things work out for the best and I sure hope her life will be much better where she will be. You can stay in touch with her in many ways and make sure you do ( if you know where she is going). Friends don't always have to be in the same area to be close to you....I know that sounds silly, but I've had a real kindred friend for years, but she is 1500 miles away and we still stay in touch. I'm sorry you're so sad right now and I wish I could be there to give you a hug and say " everything will be alright"...just remember you have friends here that will lend you a shoulder to cry on , so don't be shy. Take care
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05-24-2006, 05:29 AM	#14 (permalink)
k9hullio_sam R.I.P. Baby Girl Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 1,764 Rep Power: 95	I am so sorry to hear that!! I hope you two can still keep in touch via e-mail of letters or what not. One of my friends recently moved to Afghanistan, it was not as sad because she said she was coming back next year, but we still e-mail ezch other. Hopefully you will still be friends, and maybe your parents will let you go and see her sometimes. Good Luck!! Sorry again that she is moving.
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05-23-2006, 12:11 PM	#2 (permalink)
mrsgrubby Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Michigan Posts: 2,476 Rep Power: 140	So sorry your friend is moving, I know it is hard to loose a good friend, and even harder when that friend doesn't want to move. How far away is she going? Maybe you will still be able to see each other, and at least e-mail makes it easy to stay in touch. None the less, I am sure you will miss her, and she you. Hugs to both of you!!!

05-23-2006, 12:35 PM	#3 (permalink)
ladydog Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Sweet Home Alabama! Posts: 173 Rep Power: 47	not sure how far shes goin. DHR's taking her! grrr...but she does deserve a way better life and she cant do it here. im crying right now cause she just called me and said tomorrows the last time we'll see each other, stupid dhr people! im sure you know what dhr is right?

05-23-2006, 12:45 PM	#4 (permalink)
gsp4619 Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Philadelphia, PA Posts: 355 Rep Power: 0	awwww sorry to hear that. You can be penpals if she is going to far and your frienship will still be strong

05-23-2006, 01:39 PM	#5 (permalink)
ladydog Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Sweet Home Alabama! Posts: 173 Rep Power: 47	thanks for the advise. i may see about pen pals. i was talking to a person in the class and when i told them they just looked at me and said "so., shes just a friend." you know that made me mad! i began yelling at them and i walked out the door and walked on home.(it was time to go home.) im still wanting to cry my eyes out, tomorrow im takeing a camera and getting a pic. if yall want when theyre developed i'll show you all.

05-23-2006, 04:14 PM	#7 (permalink)
ladydog Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Sweet Home Alabama! Posts: 173 Rep Power: 47	dhr.......well kinda hard 4 me to explain..... she was taken from her mom and dad. she lives with her grandmother but the dhr is still taking her. she been in many foster homes. when i heard her story, she said to me," you know that time when i was taken outta b b comer? people said i went to another school? well its a lie. i went to a foster home, many many foster homes." i was shocked. she didnt tell until this weekend that dhr was taking her. if anyone can and know what dhr is will you explain? my friend is 12. she doesent know where shes going neither.

05-23-2006, 06:05 PM	#8 (permalink)
ladydog Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Sweet Home Alabama! Posts: 173 Rep Power: 47	im about to explode! wwwwwaaaaaaahhhh!

05-23-2006, 06:22 PM	#9 (permalink)
calgal My Yorkster kids! Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: central ca. coast Posts: 6,609 Rep Power: 222	Maybe you could go to her house and talk with her grandmother as to why she has to leave. It doesn't make sense to me, but I don't know the whole story. Maybe the grandmother is just too ill and doesn't want her granddaughter to know. I don't have a clue what dhr is. You could ask the grandmother.

05-23-2006, 07:03 PM	#10 (permalink)
mrsgrubby Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Michigan Posts: 2,476 Rep Power: 140	Well I am sorry, i bet your friend is really scared since she doesn't know where she is going. That would be scary, and especially since she has lived in several foster homes. What a sad situation for her to be in. I bet her grandma is sad too. I am so sorry you have to go through this. I wish there was something we could do to help. Just know that we feel for you honey and we are sad for you and your friend. I hope she is able to find a good home to treat her right and give her all the love and support she deserves. Hugs to you for being such a good friend to her, you sound like a really good friend!!!!

05-24-2006, 05:19 AM	#12 (permalink)
ladydog Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Sweet Home Alabama! Posts: 173 Rep Power: 47	thanks.calgal , i dont think talking to her grandmaws such a good idea. shes a drunk . i dont think she even likes me. well look at the time, im bout to have to go to school. ill get back to yall after that! bye! this is the last day! i get to see her!!!!!

05-24-2006, 06:51 AM	#15 (permalink)
mrsgrubby Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Michigan Posts: 2,476 Rep Power: 140	We'll be here for you tonight when you get home from school. I am so sorry about your friend. But hopefully she will go somewhere where she is loved and treated special. It sounds like she has had a pretty hard life, first taken away from her parents who don't sound they they were giving her a good life, the taken from her grandma that has a drinking problem. All kids deserve to be raised in a happy, healthy, loveing, caring home. Your friend deserves this. I hope you gave her your address so she can write you a letter when she gets settled and let you know where she is. I bet they won't move her out of the state, so she might not end up that far away! She might even end up in the same town, just another home. don't cry ladydog, it will be ok.

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